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In Voiceovers-Just Be You

Personal VO Views, Voice over Training, voiceover

I’ve just returned from a lovely voiceover conference. It was my first real jaunt since the COVID-19 lock downs, so I was looking forward to the time away from my city. To my surprise, I learned something unexpected at the conference. Nothing new was added to my knowledge, but more of a reminder of the importance of being myself. It’s essential to keep in mind our specialness and worth. I believe you’ll agree that the real you is your best performance at whatever you do in life.

Somewhere between December 2020 and August 2021, the voiceover industry’s preferred style changed yet again. The calming voice of season individuals between the ages of 35-55 is now passé. Instead, the current (as of this writing) industry norm has changed (back) to the younger, hipper, conversational tone. The announcer tone that has been a mainstay for decades in media is again seen as unthinkable.

Change is a regular part of the voice-acting industry. Voice seekers are looking for something that stands out from the rest of the crowd, which is a great point. But, unfortunately, our industry has been so saturated with styles and deliveries, it’s becoming harder and harder to have a sound that has never been heard or felt somewhere in the audio world.

A voice talent can get pretty insecure trying to keep up with all the changes and may feel like their style is still not enough to impress the most understanding of voice seekers. Yes, it can be a daunting task, but perhaps the focus needs an adjustment.

Be You Anyway

Most people can learn to act and portray characters or types of voiceover delivery. However, if the most popular style changes with each cycle of the moon, it can be challenging to keep with “what’s in.” Perhaps the answer is trying not to fully fit in. The best advice I keep hearing from others is to “just be you.” Becoming comfortable in being oneself can be a lifelong task. However, if we master being ourselves, we may reach our own voiceover nirvana.

“This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. ― William Shakespeare, Hamlet

Know the Great One – You

Becoming “you real,” starts with a review and study of how you talk and deliver words and emotions. Recording yourself in different situations like while talking to a friend, a client, or someone you care for, can help you learn your authentic sound. Once you’ve studied the true actor in you, you can shape your voiceover deliveries to reflect your sound. That original “you” voice sound is conversational and authentic. Once you’ve studied and mastered you, your sound will never go out of style. There is an audience for your realness as you use that talent to connect and deliver your scripts.

As I’ve blogged before, change in life is a constant, but no one or thing should force you to switch from being who you really are. As voice talents, let’s remember that our best performance is when we are genuinely ourselves and free to give our best performance.

Brake that lip!

5 Types Of Voice-over Enthusiasts

Personal, Personal VO Views, VO Business Tips, Voice over Training, Voice talent renewal

Boy shouting into microphone — Photo credit: Yingnan Lu from Pixabay

Do you ever wonder what makes a quality voiceactor or narrator? There is no sure-fire predictor. Quality is forged in fire and effort, and top voice talents are no different. Let’s look at five of the most popular types of voiceover or VO enthusiasts that could lead to great voice talents.

Curiosity Seekers

The seekers have become aware of voiceacting and think it’s great. Perhaps they are into gaming or elearning and have become curious about voice acting. They may know someone or have seen an advertisement about voiceover and believe they can have a good shot at being a top in the industry. They think with some information and an agent, they can start working as a voiceover practically overnight.

Professional VO Students

These students have taken class after class and have a good handle on the voiceover basics. They may have had instruction in Improv and or acting plus have an idea of their best niche. But, year after year, they have still not invested in a good demo or actively pursued any voiceover jobs. They may feel they need a little more time or need to become better situated in their day job before looking for VO work. It will be soon for them, but not today. They feel they’re not quite ready.

VO Sales Pitch Buyers

These poor souls may have attended a class at their local community college or participated in an online advertised voice-over presentation, and as a result, invested money in a voice-over demo. Unfortunately, they recorded their demo before they had the basic skills necessary as an actor and business owner. They may have paid out thousands of dollars (sometimes from credit cards or needed savings). While they have tried to make sound business and marketing gains, the work is just not coming in. They have or are starting to become discouraged about voice acting altogether.

“Where’s My Money” Talents

These folks had a few good jobs at the start of their voice-acting career. It looked like they were headed towards great success. Yet, after that great start, the work came to an abrupt halt. They are puzzled as to what is wrong since they booked some great jobs at the start of their career. They are beginning to lose confidence and wonder if the system is rigged.

Enthusiasts Turned Professionals

These budding professionals may have started voice acting career as anyone of the first four. They may have been told they have a nice voice and should consider voice acting. As a result, they invested money in the field, but, initially, were unable to maintain a business or find VO jobs. Some may have procrastinated because they dreaded marketing or rejections from lost auditions. Yet, while the times were tough, these folks did not quit. They made changes to keep their VO business dream alive.

“Unfortunately, … ‘Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.’”
Rita Mae Brown, mystery novelist, in her 1983 book “Sudden Death”

The enthusiast turned professional did something about their situation. They understood fictional character Jane Fulton’s quote in Rita Mae Brown’s novel. Instead of doing the same, they found their path to growing their success. Perhaps they worked more hours at their day job to pay for good voice-over training. They may have attended Improv and other training to improve their creativity. Some may have sought professional help to set up their home studio equipment properly and learned how to edit their recordings. Some may have also partnered with others, joined mastermind-type groups to learn how to set up and run their business. They learned about marketing their business according to their particular personality type and style.

The professionals don’t take audition rejections personally and taking care of themselves and others to ward off burnout or arrogance with their success. Unlike the other four types, these up-and-coming talents realized that it doesn’t matter how you get into voice acting. What matters is knowing and deciding if voiceover is right for you. The professionals learned that following a dream is a decision that leads to a commitment to do what it takes to become a quality working voice talent.

Being in voiceovers is not easy, but it can be very rewarding for talents and buyers. Helping clients develop great products can be so gratifying. But it takes work and devotion to becoming the best voice talent one can and reaching one’s goal for success.

Keep breaking that lip!

A Hike to Remember

Personal VO Views, Voice talent renewal

The pre-hike briefing — **Getting ready to walk**

I don’t know about you, but I’ve learned that many changes and challenges have similar lessons. If you participate in sports, you know full well how sports can relate to business, even the voiceover business. With that, I’d like to tell you about my first adventure hiking. Hiking and voice acting are alike; you have to go with the flow and don’t quit.

The Adventure Begins

Recently, I went on my first real hike. Before the trek started, our leader asked us not to talk too much as we walked and focus our thoughts on nature. So, I was expecting a nice calming walk through gentle backwoods near Northwest Washington, DC’s old and historic neighborhoods. Instead, I experienced rough milled trails through wooded areas and dirt corridors compacted with sharp rocks, small and round boulders, hard stones, and bulging tree roots. Small streams were also in our path that ran under full, leaf-laden trees that shaded our two-and-one-half-hour walk.

The tree cover was fine, especially when a summer shower passed over us. But then, there were the steep inclines and descents. Someone (the U.S. Park Service, I presume) nicely positioned long wooden planks, like the ones you see on railroad tracks, as steps along the steep inclines. We walked up and down the vertical passageways over the planks with some protruding because erosion had washed away some of the dirt and sand that initially surrounded the wooden stepladders.

After about an hour, the hike was no longer fun for me. But, not wanting to show my unease about the terrain, I followed my group of hikers with a smile and kept moving. The leader, a well-seasoned hiker, strolled over the stone and dirt almost gliding as she took every step in a carefree manner. She seems to glance down only occasionally at the changing surfaces under our feet.

On the other hand, I had to carefully watch my every step to not trip over a stone or tree branch and break my neck! (No Uber here.) I was so happy for the occasional stop for a quick drink of water, but we were soon up and at it again.

I know we were supposed to be enjoying nature. But my primary thoughts were not to fall and keep moving. Each time I saw another steep climb or questionable ascent, I just told myself to keep going. Complaining was not going to get me out of this hike any sooner or stop the slight pain in my toes from wearing hiking boots that were just a little too snug. I tried to adjust my toes in my shoes the best I could and kept walking…and walking…and walking until the walk was finished.

After what seemed like hours, we ended our walk, which was just over two hours. We each reflected on our experience and what we thought of the walk. My comments were brief, but my primary thinking was I just had to keep moving and I would be all right.

Hiking and Voice Acting

You’re probably wondering what does hiking have to do with voice acting? Two words: keep moving. The path to voice acting success is never a straight, smooth path. Granted, some people find success quickly and consistently, but I don’t believe that is the case for most of us dedicated to finding our voice acting success. After the walk, someone said that we bump and hit our way through finding our right path to success. Sometimes, the trail is impassable and we have to try again or we find that our timing is off. So, we stop for a while, regroup, and start again. It can take years to find the right niche for our business. And it may take years for us to partner with stable clients with whom we can enjoy working regularly. So, it sounds like voice acting is a lot like hiking.

Life is a Mirror of Itself

Life takes us on many fantastic journeys if we allow it to teach us along the way. Our goals may point us to what we want, but our paths are usually never straight or smooth. We have to take each day as it comes and keep our most important things on top of mind. Today we may do our best and accomplish much or perhaps not. Either way, we must courageously walk these paths if we expect to carve out a life that we can look back on, and with assurance, know that we did our best and learned from the tests.

Keep breaking that lip.

Five Ways to Confront the Redefining Voice-acting Industry

Personal VO Views, VO Business Tips

The voiceover industry is truly on a roller coaster ride. There is an incredible uptick in those seeking to get into voiceovers. There is the pressure to have a “studio quality” in-home recording space (competition), more online and at-home upgrades, and all of us need to up our game, again. The typical talent may feel like she or he is in a whirlwind. The COVID-19 concerns of 2020-2021 are just a portion of what should be front of mind for the typical voice talent. What’s more, there is an ever-increasing number of apps and software programs threatening to replace the whole voiceover industry practically overnight. The year 2021 has more challenges than can be listed in any one blog. Now, I’d like to focus on some ways to challenge back. Here are five ways to confront the changing business and voiceacting landscape.

Stick with your Basics

Influential business people know the importance of staying on top of their game. Becoming stagnant will do nothing for your business, so keep working with coaches, reviewing your social media plans, and always be open to thinking outside the box when marketing your business. If you can’t afford something, barter for that skill or service. Do what you need to do to grow your business smartly.

Keep in mind that popularity rarely leads to lasting success. Once you are successful, your favor will follow. Please don’t get it mixed up. You’re in business to meet your clients’ needs, not to have the most Instagram followers or Facebook friends.

Listen and Learn

I like to organize and run things in a particular order. It gives me the illusion of control. But that’s not a good policy for growing a voiceover business. We need to remember to expose our minds to new ideas and be open to new learning and communities of thought. Being anchored in your own values will help you critically listen to others without losing yourself yet still gleaming from other viewpoints. Set time to learn how others are dealing with changes, the issues faced by potential clients, current and future competition, as well as changes in the industry. Know what’s hot and what is not. The only way to really grow is to learn.

Steven Spring gives six tips to becoming more open to new ideas in Keeping an Open Mind: How to Embrace New Ideas. Spring wrights, “Avoid closing yourself off. Welcome new situations that are different from those you’re familiar with. When you’re exposed to differing opinions, look at them as learning experiences.”

Receive the New

Many voice talents acutely listen to commercials and other audio messages to stay current. This simple exercise can help a voice actor keep up with the changes in the industry. Listen and know what styles are taking hold. The tools of business constantly change. I remember a time when it was “all the rage” to complete one’s own taxes. Now I hear a lot of small and big businesses stand by having their taxes professionally prepared. The American tax laws can change without notice and often within the same filing year. Hence, it makes sense to pay a professional who is just as proficient as a tax preparer as you should be as a business professional. Receive and apply the new; it’s there for you.

Believe in You

As creatives, voice actors are extremely sensitive. This means we have to know how to recover from rejection and keep on trying. Remember to glance at your goals daily to keep your subconscious mind leading you towards your most significant accomplishments. Don’t let fear and doubt keep you on the sidelines. Keep on trying; believe in you.

Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.”― Roy T. Bennett

Reward Your Hard Stuff Work

Many people find marketing and reaching out to strangers as the hard stuff in growing a business. But without new business, we don’t get to do much of that which gives us purpose and enrichment. Do the hard stuff and then reward yourself for your efforts. While we all would like more money, don’t make every self-reward about money. Complicated things like cold calling, practicing, and the like need more substantial rewards. Find what really touches your soul and reward your most minor efforts to get through the hard stuff. If we continue to press through enough hard stuff, we will reach our success plaque.

That’s all from me for now folks. Keep on breaking that lip!

Voice-over Goals are Doable in 2021

Business Renewal, Personal, Personal VO Views

Last year, my view of yearly goals was a little different. This time, I’m considering a happy medium between just thinking up stuff in one’s head to written items in a plan. So, put on your thinking brain and consider these thoughts for making your voiceover and life goals for 2021.

My thinking about goals is being influenced by, of course, the pandemic. The pandemic has affected how we all think about the world and ourselves. We need to be more on point about what we want professionally and personally. I’m not talking about throwing away your mask. I’m talking about being clear in what you want, the actions (and precautions) you will take, and what you are willing to do for your continued viability.

In How to set goals for 2021 when everything feels uncertain, Elizabeth Grace Saunders writes, “Despite the unknowns of 2021, setting goals still has great value. Having goals gives you a sense of self-determination that you have the autonomy to make choices for your life and the competence to achieve them. This is a key component of mental and emotional health.”

A goal is not always meant to be reached; it often serves simply as something to aim at.”

Bruce Lee

**Set it and don’t forget it**

Goals are needed now more than ever. The Lockdowns have limited our ability to interact as we have in the past, so we need to find new ways of keeping our lives moving toward a promising future. We will undoubtedly have challenges. That’s why we plan for the best and meet the other stuff as it comes.

Be SMART

Setting SMART (specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, or time-bound) goals will provide steps and processes for reaching one’s objectives. The 21 Goal Ideas to Set and Achieve for a Better 2021 says, “… research shows that 80% of new year’s resolutions are forgotten by February 15th. So, if you’re planning on losing weight, saving money, or learning a new skill, you better have a plan.”

Set the right priorities

Continue your voice-over priorities – it’s your business, it’s your life. Consider what worked in 2020, what was derailed, and what you can do to get back on track. It’s not the good times that define us. The difficult times expose our strengths and weakness. Make sure you are keeping your priorities in placed to meet your goals even throught life’s challenges.

Joan Michelson in Think About 2021 Goal-Setting Differently, suggest you start “… your 2021 goal-setting by first listing all your accomplishments in 2020 – and I do mean ALL of them, in every area of your life, as I outlined in my previous Forbes piece – and see where they are leading you. Looking at the throughlines or patterns and commonalities in these accomplishments will reveal where they are leading you.”

Stay woke

The pandemic has brought a lot of hidden realities to light. Being “woke” is not a bad thing but an opportunity to expand your thinking about the world around you. Our lives are moving along in the current of time. You can go with the flow or pull out your goal setting oar and paddle in the direction you’d like to travel. The best way to impact your direction is by writing down your goals covering specific areas of your life.

Write them and they will (or may) come

Your goals’ list does not to be long but should include specific items. Dave Ramsey’s article, How to Set Goals for 2021, recommends goals cover seven life areas: spiritual, fitness, educational, family, career, social, and financial.

Today is the best day to get started. We all want 2021 to be a lot better than in 2020. I hope my tips and reminders stir you to take action to do some planning for your future. Setting goals is no guaranteed that you will meet each objective, but aiming at nothing will always get you that result.

Now keep on breaking that lip.

Voices of Color: We’re Here

Personal, Personal VO Views

Over the past few weeks, the United States (followed by the World) has endured an onslaught of race relations issues. The voice-over community has not been immune. Allegations of disparities in hiring ethnic voice actors have also come to light. The COVID-19 pandemic is the backdrop for today’s increased anxiety and mental strain. As such, coping with the changing economic landscape, human understanding, and addressing of contemporary ethnic issues are more challenging than ever. But this time can also uncover new possibilities for voice seekers and talents in many genres. Take hope and know that voices of color are ready and available for hire.

As a voice actor of color, I see some of the recent tensions in a different light. For the first time, many voice producers are becoming aware of possible unknown disparities or biases.

As such, I see this as a way for some to build new connections with voice casters and producers who may not have previously considered minority actors for their projects. This may be a great time to make a positive step forward toward developing new relationships in the voice acting world.

We See What We Want To See

We know there have been issues. I’ve known what it’s like to feel the challenge of convincing voice casters to consider minority voice actors like me. Furthermore, I’ve seen eLearning, audiobook, and other projects for general audiences routinely cast outside of the minority voice-over community. Last of all, I’ve even heard autobiographies of famous African Americans voiced by sound alike, non-African Americans.

Sure, there are actors like Morgan Freeman, Angela Bassett, and others, but the list of minority voice-over actors is a long one. Today’s voice casters have many fine actor choices who are excellent performers just waiting to be considered.

I believe most of the current disparities are the result of people doing business with those they know, are familiar with, and are within their communities. Dr. Pragya Agarwal sheds light on this in her Forbes, December 3, 2018, on-line article. In Unconscious Bias: How It Affects Us More Than We Know, Dr. Agarwal writes, “confirmation bias is, where people are more likely to choose or associate positive qualities to people who look or sound or seem more like themselves or belong to the same social and ethnic group as their own.” This is human nature; we are all human. So, lets consider varying our habits.

Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.”

Edward Everett Hale

Ready and Available Talent

As society seeks to heal human biases, this time may present significant opportunities for actors of color. As more producers broaden their talent potentials, minority voice actors should be ready to show their stuff. One of the most remarkable points to be known for is as a business professional who gets it done. All voice actors, regardless of ethnicity, should seek to show up and work their business with pride and excellence.

As voice seekers look to expand and broaden their pool of talent, this is an opportunity for all voice artists to put their best foot forward. Let’s remember the basics:

Know your niche
Deliver what you promised on time (early)
Make sure you have a quality home studio
Develop necessary home audio skills (editing, processing, etc.)
Have a current functional website
Continue training
Keep your web presence postings positive and uplifting

Practicing these good basics and continuing to do your best for your currents and future clients will help you reach the success you want to achieve.

We Are the (Voiceover) World

We all want to be seen as equals. Still, the World will never be fair. Sometimes you will lose, be left out, dropped, and passed over. You will suffer losses and biases. Sometimes you will have to change your approach and find another way around and to win. That’s the game of life.

As I’ve said before, our time on Earth is too short to let the “bobbed wire” of life keep us from continuing our journey to success. It’s still about building relationships. As our communities seek to heal and rebuild, we can all work together to produce awesome new projects, opportunities, and better relationships.

Together, we can break that lip!

Holding Up In 2020: Have It Your Way

Business Renewal, Personal VO Views, voiceover, Voiceover Bussiness Tips

As I hope you know, the world is in the midst of the Covid-19 onslaught on our society and our way of life. As such, we have to make drastic changes in our daily lives to stay healthy. Countless news programs, commentaries, podcasts, preachers, and scientists give us their daily take on how to adjust to the ever-changing “new normal.” But I’ve come to understand that changing during this unprecedented time in world history can only go so far. Each of us must decide how to make it through these strange days.

If you’re running a business (like voice acting), there is a fair amount of adjustment needed for dealing with things as a creative and entrepreneur. I’ve come up with a few thoughts to consider for adjusting to the new normal your way.

Don’t Get Overwhelmed

While voice actors should keep abreast of the types of voice delivery popular in media and entertainment, we need to dial back the doses of bad news. To be clear, communication that leads to feelings of depression, sadness, hopelessness, and fear are bad news. Keeping informed of the latest health developments and strategies for staying safe is a good idea. But you may have noticed by now that too much of a perceived ”good thing” may not be so good after all.

Limit daily news and media time. If it’s breaking news, you’ll probably get a Tweet or Instagram post about it. Review several sources of news to help you determine a balanced view of the information. You must think critically about what you are seeing and hearing to decide what’s best for you.

In, What to Do When You Get Unexpected Bad News, Suzanne Kane writes “Go straight to the source to eliminate bias or watered-down information that may be more opinion and hearsay than factual. To properly deal with unexpected negative news, you need to arm yourself with the facts.”

Maintain your Daily Wellness

Hopefully, you have some idea of what a thriving daily routine looks like for you. Keep your physical health in check, and make sure you are also watching your dental health. (Ever since I learned that many of the ancient Egyptians died of gum disease, I’ve become a big supporter of good dental health.) Likewise, watch your weight by getting in regular exercise and healthy relaxation. I find cycling helps me to stay mentally and physically healthy.

Practice Caution until the Cure

Many of us are finally getting opportunities to do more outside our homes than grocery shop. We can now visit museums, shops, beaches, churches, restaurants, and friends! But there is still a need for extra caution in society. Have your fun and do as much as you need to maintain good relationships. Of course, make sure you’re practicing the official guidelines for venturing out in public and around others.

Stretch your Creativity to the (legal) Max

It will take most of us a lifetime to understand and reveal our true selves. Use this time of adjustment to continue to see what is in you and express it creatively. For example, you don’t have to be a voice actor to invest in training in voice or acting. Get in on virtual learning and artistic pursuits to see what comes from within you. Let yourself laugh at life and dream of how the world would be if everyone were just like you. If you’re a voice talent, never stop investigating the possibilities of advancing your creativity to that which lies within you. Continue to harness your creative “gold mine,” your mind.

Nurture your People

Your new normal should not be void of people. Again, voiceover people know and understand the importance of human interactions. We know that you cannot relate and reach others without understanding them. We need our families, friends, neighbors, and even some of our enemies. People teach us to succeed, fail, fight, love, grow, and adapt. Spending all your time behind physical or virtual walls does not lead to good relationships or mental health.

The worst solitude is to have no real friendships.” Francis Bacon

Use the virtual tools available to connect with others. Moreover, meet others in safely distanced setting to talk, laugh, and just be yourself. You need your people and they need you. Don’t deprive them of you. Nurture others and you will find your spirit is a little lighter every time you interact with people. Find a way to make it work your way.

Your survival is now in your hands. You are too special to lose, we need you. Take the advice on being safe, but don’t let being safe strip away your life. You can make it through 2020 and beyond. I’ll be listening for you breaking a lip.

5 Voiceover Sanity Checks for a Troubled World

Personal, Personal VO Views, voiceover

Creative people are not immune to the effects of traumatic events. Recently on Facebook, I made what I thought was a benign comment related to recovering from COVID-19. To my surprise, I received more than one not so lovely reply from semi to perfect strangers asking me to prove and explain world virus recovery rates and other recent political media occurrences. Feelings aside, I believe the postings were not personal arguments. (After all, what sane person would attack their supposed “Facebook friend.”) But I think the postings were expressions of fear and anxiety by the writers.

If possible, I prefer to be a part of the solution rather than the problem. I want to suggest some simple, common sense ways to soothe the anxiety and refocus your positive energy. Your social media friends may be glad you did.

Take a Mindful Moment

One of the best ways to start feeling better is to count your blessings. With so much bad news in the media, make a point to turn your thoughts to what’s good in your present life. Take a moment to take stock of your blessings and make a point to feel thankful.

Give the Media a Break

As a result of the COVID crisis, we’re all giving a lot of attention to the media to be up on when our lives may start to come back to a semblance of normal. As a result of this crisis, too much media coverage can intensify your anxiety. The Genesis blog, Coping with Fear and Anxiety Following a Traumatic Event, notes that “If news stories make you anxious, limit yourself to one newscast a day. Avoid social media, which can often contain false information and strong opinions, which may include anger, blame, and generalizations.”

For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind.“
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Focus on One Activity at a Time

Many people are still trying to do business as usual, which often includes multitasking. Under normal circumstances, a voice talent must wear many hats, but currently, we are not under normal circumstances. Try to slow down and focus on one thing at a time. Moreover, we often surf the Internet or respond to text messages while doing any number of mindless activities. Give your mind a break so you can continue to function in this uncertain time. It’s alright for you to enjoy the slowdown. You can pick up where you left off later.

Resist Pavlovian Conditioning

Conditioning and behavior are often learned. We are taught to respond to a ringing phone, text message alerts, and even today’s reports about the pandemic. Russian physiologist Ivan Pavlov (1849-1936) experimented with dogs and demonstrated “classical conditioning” (also referred to as Pavlovian conditioning). Pavlov proved that a link could be developed between one event or occurrence that could result in a specific subconscious behavior associated with another activity.

Instead of reacting to negative comments, bad news, and other information, refuse to let difficult information disturb your spirit, especially events that you have no control over or the ability to change. This is not being insensitive. Refusing to dwell on the negative is being sensitive to your needs and what is the best response for your mental health at this time. You don’t have to respond to subliminal stimuli or Pavlovian conditioning. Take a breath, gather your thoughts, let your storm of feelings, and fear pass. Choose to maintain your composure with calmness.

Learn to Exercise and Breathe

Exercising and breathing is another way to inner peace. Take a walk (via social distancing) outside day or night and let the feeling of movement take your mind and body to a better space. Take good breaths to fill your lungs. Deep breathing automatically relaxes the mind and body. Something as simple as counting to 10 and taking one or two slow deep breaths can change one’s whole outlook.

A little self care, to include the above, can go a long way to restore a voice-over’s sanity in a troubled world. As you know, humanity has seen diseases, pestilence, and war throughout history. I believe we will survive COVID-19 and thrive. So today, do your sanity check, we will need you on the other side.

Break a lip? Oh, yea!

8 Things That Can Make A Staycation Work For You

Business Tips, Personal, Personal VO Views, Voiceover Bussiness Tips, Voiceover Clients

This week, it’s all about the Coronavirus (COVID-19). It’s a threat to our way of life and seems to be the only news we hear. No matter your business or employment state, all people are affected by this medical crisis to our society. But what can you control, change, or improve? Yes, we have choices, even during this worldwide medical crisis. Choose to take your mind off the crisis with 8 things that can make this time of staycation work for you.

1. Work Your Undone “To-Dos”

If you’re like me, something is always falling off your “To-do list.” Look around your office and home, and notice what you have been planning to do but just have not gotten around to completing. Are there rooms that need to be cleaned, painted, or just organized? Use this time to take a crack at your list. Then again, these undone tasks don’t have to be just work. Get to your fun To-do list too.

2. Express your Creativity

Many voice talent are creative people by nature. If you’re not a voice talent or actor, that does not mean you cannot take up a creative habit or be creative. Consider adopting new practices like painting, writing, or even coloring.

Coloring books are popular these days. In an article appearing in O Magazine, Brigitt Earley’s Best Adult Coloring Books to Melt Your Stress Away, notes that coloring books are not a kid only activity. She writes, “… the advanced options (coloring books) are chock-full of beautiful and insanely intricate designs; others are a little irreverent; some are more functional, doubling as a journal or a calendar… .” Coloring is considered quite calming.

Still not convinced? The blog by Eva Williams, 8 Therapeutic Benefits of Coloring in Adult Coloring Books and Apps, says, “While our mind is engaged in coloring, it seldom diverts and relapses into negative thoughts.” It’s all about refocusing your mind.

3. Reconnect with Family and Friends

While social media is all the rage, make time to pick up the phone to talk or live stream friends and family. Check on older loved ones as well those who are single or live alone. The act of reaching out and caring about others has a calming and pleasing effect that can last for days.

4. Take an Inventory of You

It’s okay for a little self-focus. Moreover, this is probably the best time for such an activity. During the Coronavirus, we may want to examine what is essential in your life, are we pursuing our goals, and are they the right goals. Writing down what you want, where you want to go, and where you are in the process can help bring your life into focus. Make the best of your time and talents. (For more, see my blog on keeping your goals fresh and on point).

5. Keep Moving

The old saying is, ‘If you don’t use it you will lose it.’ So, make time daily to stretch and get your body moving. From my point of view of a voice talent, you should practice breathing and other techniques to keep your voice at it’s best. The body works succinctly with all its parts. If you’re stressed or upset, it will come out in your voice-over performances. Release a little stress through movement.

Tell your readers to use it or lose it. If you don’t use your muscles, they get weak. If you don’t use your mind, it begins to fail.” John Templeton

6. Update your Software Knowledge

Do you have books or software you’ve downloaded and have still not mastered? (Guilty) Now is the time to check on what you have. Make sure your remote directing, editing, and other software updates.

Moreover, find out about any new features and learn some of the old features to make sure you’re getting the most out of your purchase. The information and tools only help us when we know how to use them and use them well. If you need help, Facebook and YouTube usually have loads of software tutorials to help you get up and functioning.

7. Plan your Next Vacation

If money is no object, where would you like to go? If money is an object, where would you like to go? Find a happy medium between the two and plan your next (post staycation) Vacation. Consider your budget, travel, location, and activities. There is nothing wrong with dreaming, and just thinking of time away in the future can lighten your spirits today.

8. Use Social Media Wisely

Not all news is good news or real news. Watch what you need to stay safe and healthy, then cut off the Media. Don’t worry, there’s always an update in a few hours, so it’s fine to give yourself a break. If you are hooked on social media, watch a few cat videos, or kids throwing food, and feel free to laugh out loud.

Go ahead and break that lip!

Pay it Forward: Your Day Will Come

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Christmas season 2019 did not go as I had planned. I covered my shopping list, made gift purchases, and developed plans for spending time with family and friends. However, just days before the Christmas holiday (while singing with my church no doubt), I noticed that I was struggling with my breathing. My breath was so shallow, then I suddenly and without warning had no breath to finish the song I was singing.

That day in church was the beginning of my 6-week recovery from pneumonia. But instead of reflecting on my temporary illness, I fondly remember the unexpected kindness I received from my family and friends during my time of recovery. I realized how important it is to stay connected to family, friends, and associates because a lot of life catches us off guard. The lesson I observed is if you pay it forward (and back to the person), your day will come.

Embrace the Help

If you’ve helped enough people get what they want or need (loose paraphrase from Zig Ziglar), you can expect something positive in return. Don’t be too proud to accept help especially when you know you need help and cannot do things for yourself. Moreover, there’s no shame in letting others know you need help. By allowing yourself to be on the receiving end of support, you give others an excellent feeling of giving when they can come to your rescue. Accept the help and be sure to return the favor later.

You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” Zig Ziglar

Be Thankful

When you receive unexpected help or support, make a point to send a thank you card, note, or email letting others know that you are thankful for their kindness. Kindness is in shrinking supply in our current culture. Something as small as a heartfelt hug or note can go a long way.

Please pay it forward… Again

Voice actors are not exempt from paying it forward. As a matter of fact, the most successful voice actors are usually very good at giving back. The act of giving back can include rendering excellent services to clients along with helping and volunteering at community and non-profit causes.

If you’re ever down for a time, once you’ve recovered or gotten back on your feet, start to fill other lives with help, encouragement, and acts of genuine kindness.

Voice over’s pay it Forward

Make time to volunteer and give to others regardless of their ability to give back to you. Also, it’s not too late to send a Valentine’s Day card to clients as a way of expressing kindness. Life is full of reciprocal opportunities personally and professionally. A blog by the Talented Ladies Club gives some nice thoughts:

We’re often presented with opportunities to do favors for others in life – from
passing on outgrown baby clothes and toys to friends and family (or donating
them to charities), to brilliant schemes like Share the warmth, where you
‘pre-purchase’ a cup of coffee or tea in a cafe, and leave as a credit for someone
in need to use another time.

I challenge you in the last half of Valentine’s week to look for ways to give to others. That way (hopefully) when your day comes (and it will) your family and friends will rally around you. As you face life’s challenges, may your recovery include help and support from others so you can get back to doing and being your best.

Break a lip!

Voice Overs